Romance And Relationship Tips For Later In Life

Older Couple Embracing

As you begin to age, it may seem like your life is starting to slow down. You're not moving as fast as you did in your 20's, you're finding more wrinkles and gray hair, and you're nearing the time of retirement or may already be retired. Just because you're experiencing a slow down doesn't mean your love life should.

Whether you're single, widowed or still going strong after years of marriage, we offer a few tips for finding new love or keeping the romance alive as you get older:

Try online dating

With the evolution of the internet, dating is not what it used to be. It's now easier than ever to embrace the online dating scene with popular sites such as AARP Dating, eHarmony, and Our Time. Beyond online dating sites, you can reconnect with old friends and make new ones with social media. Facebook, for example, is a great tool for discovering new relationships and meeting new people.

Keep going on dates

Date nights are a must to keep the sparks flying in any new relationship or after decades of marriage. If you're single, don't worry; the same rule applies to you. Find a friend from your neighborhood, church or community center and go out on a date! Enjoy your time together at the movies, over a romantic meal, or even at the casino!

Visit your community center or local gym

Community centers and gyms are a great gathering place to meet and socialize with local singles your age. The local YMCA offers social clubs and workout classes designed to help you live an active and healthy lifestyle. This is a great option for older married and single individuals to get out and socialize.


Non-profits are always looking for help; it's also a great way to connect with new people who share the same values. Organizations like Ronald McDonald House and local food pantries will feed your need to give back, and help you find friends along the way.

Try something new!

There's no time like the present to find a new hobby, take a class or partake in a new experience. As an older single, trying something new is a great way to meet people and mingle with those your age that have the same interests. If you're married, pursuing something new that excites you is beneficial to both parties. Plus, it helps keep the love alive!

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